Why Asking for Help Is a Sign of Strength: Lessons from HIV Advocacy and Community Building
Why Asking for Help Is a Sign of Strength: Lessons from HIV Advocacy and Community Building
By Monroe Russell
August 6, 2026
As college students, we’re often expected to have everything under control.
Wake up. Go to class. Join organizations. Maintain friendships. Think about internships. Plan for the future. Repeat.
Somewhere along the way, many of us start believing that asking for help means we’re falling behind. I know I’ve felt that pressure.

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